To stop taking things personally and enhance relationships, recognize that the core issue lies in behaviors, not self-identity. By shifting focus from personal feelings of inadequacy to understanding others' perspectives, individuals can foster empathy and gain clearer insights into their actions. This involves mentally stepping into others' shoes and assessing their view of your behaviors. Asking for feedback on perceived actions can also illuminate gaps in self-awareness. Additionally, identifying specific manifestations of negative feelings—such as behavior patterns or communication styles—can lead to meaningful self-reflection and correction. Ultimately, understanding and externalizing perceptions helps in taking responsibility for behavior changes, fostering improved relationships and personal well-being.