Acknowledging the potential awkwardness and obstacles in tough conversations, especially those related to identity, can be incredibly helpful. Embracing the awkwardness by anticipating mistakes and apologizing in advance can pave the way for more productive discussions. Similarly, anticipating potential obstacles and creating a plan for addressing them can prevent overreactions and enhance the conversation. Recognizing that difficult conversations will inherently be challenging and accepting this fact can turn obstacles into opportunities for deeper connection and understanding.