
#795 - Ryan Holiday - 11 Harsh Stoic Truths To Improve Your Life
Modern Wisdom
Reflecting on the Beauty of Struggles and Setbacks
Struggles and setbacks may seem unbearable in the moment, but in retrospect, they become beautiful parts of our journey. The mind has a way of integrating these hardships into who we are, leading us to believe that they were necessary for our growth. Even though it's natural to worry about regrets, the mind has a remarkable ability to minimize those feelings. It's essential to give ourselves grace during tough times, acknowledging that they shape us as individuals and trusting that we will be grateful for them in the future. It's okay not to see the positive side immediately, as shown in Hemingway's story of losing all his work and struggling before reinventing his style. It's a reminder that it's okay for things to feel awful initially, but eventually, we can reach a point of understanding and gratitude.