Sometimes when your family is concerned about the person that you're dating, like, may know better than you two. We just don't consider that possibility at all. It's inconceivable that my parents, who have more experience at marriage than i do, understand what it takes to form a successful, healthy, long term relationshipMore practically, you can sett imits with them. And the other really crazy thing here is, like, i knoit's shocking sometimes. I'm not saying thi sarcastic,. honestly,  but we really think about it, like they may actually know better than we do.