The Fuck Are You Not Clearing That Out First?

The speaker discusses their experience dating two ESTPs and compares their relationship dynamics. They find those relationships fun but detached and sometimes unhealthy. They mention that ESTPs view people as things to play with, whereas ESFPs view their partners like toys to toy with. The speaker explains that by toys they mean toying with someone like a cat with its prey. Overall, they highlight the different perspectives of ESTPs and ESFPs in relationships.