Single individuals often engage socially and contribute to the community differently than married individuals, as they may not be as focused on their immediate family unit. This allows them to care more broadly for society and its vulnerable populations, such as children. Conversely, married individuals typically channel their efforts toward raising their own children, fulfilling an essential societal role. Historical contexts reveal that some single people dedicate their lives to causes outside traditional family structures, exemplified by clergy and activists. Despite the value of both lifestyles in fostering social responsibility, a society composed solely of one would encounter existential challenges.
Marriage has long been considered a goal to aspire to and a conventional path to happiness. But over the last few decades, the traditional view of marriage as the cornerstone of adult life has been questioned. Changes in economic conditions, gender roles, and cultural values have fueled a reevaluation of whether marriage is still desirable or necessary for personal fulfillment and social stability. Those who believe it’s better to get married argue that married individuals report better physical and mental well-being, compared to single adults. They also experience economic and social benefits. Those who believe it’s better to be single say singledom helps promote independence, allows individuals to make decisions freely, makes it likely to create broader social networks and communities, and feel more fulfilled than they would if they felt pressured to be partnered.
Whether you are in a relationship or not, we debate the following prompt: Married or Single?
Arguing Married: Jonathan Rothwell, Principal Economist at Gallup
Arguing Single: Bella DePaulo, Social Scientist and Author of "Singled Out" and "Single at Heart"
Emmy award-winning journalist John Donvan moderates
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