In relationships, when one person puts up emotional walls, it can create a negative feedback loop where the other person is encouraged to get closer due to the lack of emotional intimacy. By changing the dynamic to focusing on self-investment rather than seeking constant validation, the behavior of the other person can change unpredictably, leading to curiosity, personal growth, or even potential infidelity. Instead of pushing on locked doors, stepping back and focusing on personal growth can lead to unexpected outcomes in relationships.

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