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27: The Sex Ed You Should Have Gotten with Rachel Coler Mulholland
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Four Pillars of Safe Sex
Fast forward to losing my virginity was not pleasurable. Because had they been given the opportunity to explore their own bodies, to figure out what their bodies liked, it's again, it's a cultural norm that we just expect that./nSo we're literally setting our girls up for not believing that their sexual encounters should be pleasurable. And that's like a big reason why so many of us and so many of our daughters would grow up to be like, to partake in this culture where like my pleasure doesn't matter. And it really just matters about the man. And I'm just doing it so that he like, oh my God, this is such a light bulb moment./nYeah, we never label it. We don't name that. We don't talk about the idea that we're not talking about pleasure because we don't want to talk about sex. Like we have never, that doesn't come up. And then so like, you know, you feel uncomfortable talking to little kids about it. You don't want to say this feels good. And then./nThe next step of that is it feels good when you do it to yourself and it should feel good when./nYou get to a partner. And that's where like the next video, one of the next ones that I had blow up was my four pillars discussion, the four pillars of safe./nSex. Safe sex isn't just about protection. So what are the four pillars?
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