Parenting involves leading by example and allowing children to emulate positive behaviors to become their own individuals. True sovereignty is about being in charge of one's choices without seeking approval or validation from external sources. It is essential to make choices based on personal values rather than external validation for sustainable well-being. The distinction between being externally motivated for success and being self-motivated is crucial for personal growth and autonomy. Breaking out of the cycle of seeking external validation is challenging but necessary for personal empowerment and autonomy in decision-making.