Dangers of Comparing Yourself , Good comes with the bad, Comparison Groups

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Comparing yourself to high achievers or famous individuals can lead to despondency due to unfair comparisons. The pride in wanting to be like them may lead to unrealistic expectations. A better approach is to compare yourself to who you were yesterday, acknowledging your unique talents, limitations, and opportunities. Aiming for self-improvement is reasonable, but comparing yourself to an idealized target can be detrimental. Jealousy towards others is based on a narrow, marketed view of their life, failing to consider the full spectrum of their experiences. Unrealistic wishes to have someone else's success without their struggles can breed resentment and bitterness. It's crucial to recognize that success comes with challenges, and one must accept both the good and the bad when aspiring towards greatness.

Dr Jordan B. Peterson is a clinical psychologist, podcaster, speaker and an author.

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