Asking oneself why they engage in their current role can be a daunting introspective journey, especially in church leadership. This correlative self-exploration invites individuals to confront their inner truths, which may reveal painful emotions such as anxiety, disappointment, and resentment. The avoidance of silence often prevents people from facing these truths, leading to unprocessed feelings that can manifest in unhealthy behaviors. To achieve emotional freedom, one must allow these thoughts and emotions to rise to the surface, process them in a safe environment, and move beyond their grasp. Embracing vulnerability and honesty with oneself and God is essential to experiencing the full depth of divine love, as many are hindered from comprehending that love due to unacknowledged inner turmoil.