Avoid the 10%: Beware High Conflict Individuals

Approximately 10% of people are classified as high conflict individuals who thrive on drama and conflict. These individuals exhibit two main types: about half are passive and manipulative, while the other half are aggressive and abrasive. It is crucial to exercise caution when forming close relationships, particularly in the first year. Avoid making significant commitments, such as moving in together or having children, too soon. Additionally, if a person's behavior seems out of the norm, assess whether it aligns with what 90% of people would deem acceptable; if not, take a step back and reassess.