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The Importance of Processing Negative Events in Relationships
Processing negative events in a relationship is crucial to prevent them from getting rehearsed and remembered repeatedly. John Gottman emphasizes the concept of 'attuned processing' or getting closure on negative emotional events to avoid attributing blame and spiraling into conflicts. Engaging in attuned processing with a partner can help fogly remember the negative event and build a healthy, trusting relationship.