Managing multiple responsibilities can be overwhelming, especially when expectations collide. A new marriage and a demanding job in the Philippines required balancing the roles of a husband and a professional, while simultaneously completing a dissertation. Rising at 3 a.m. for uninterrupted work, followed by extensive hours in the office, proved to be a grueling schedule. The support of a forgiving partner, who took on the task of retyping corrections, highlights the importance of collaboration in overcoming challenges. Despite the difficulties faced during this year, perseverance led to eventual success, demonstrating resilience in the face of adversity.