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3 Reasons Why 99% of Relationships FAIL
The School of Greatness
The Distinction Between Chemistry and Compatibility in Relationships
Feeling free to be oneself in a relationship is essential for a healthy dynamic, as opposed to feeling trapped or suffocated. True acceptance within a partnership fosters a sense of freedom and authenticity. Chemistry, often mistaken for love, can be misleading; it may cloud judgment and create an illusion of liking someone based on chemical reactions rather than genuine compatibility. It's vital to prioritize understanding the other person rather than overvaluing chemistry alone. Spending time to truly know a partner allows one to gather essential information about them, including potential red flags, without trying to embellish or ignore these signs. Relationships should not be constructed on the idea of 'potential', as attempting to change someone can lead to resentment and a toxic dynamic. Instead, observe if the partner is actively working toward their growth. Valid growth should come from within, not from external pressure. The focus should be on compatibility, where both partners can support each other's individuality without the expectation of transforming each other.
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