Being a River Guide in Interactions

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Being a river guide means being attentive to cues, such as noticing someone's silence or body language, to anticipate reactions and adapt behavior accordingly. By having 'our head on a swivel' and being proactive in gauging the situation, we increase the chances of positive outcomes. This approach is likened to guiding interactions in various settings, such as meetings or family meals, to navigate social dynamics effectively and create a positive impact. 'Walking on eggshells,' as discussed in recent work, reflects the common feeling of uncertainty in social interactions and the desire to say and do the right things for a positive reception.

Have you struggled to speak up when it matters most? My guest Sam Horn has devoted her career to helping people transform awkward moments into open communication.

In this episode, Sam shares her expertise on how to find your voice, even on eggshells. We explore essential skills like awareness, listening, and empathy to shift from reactive to proactive in challenging interactions. Sam dives into strategies from her newest book, Talking on Eggshells: Soft Skills for Hard Conversations, so you can turn conflicts into clarifying, satisfying conversations. If you’ve felt too intimidated to speak your truth, this episode will give you hope.

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