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638: Keep Christianity Weird & Lessons from the Church Abuse Scandal with Kristen Kobes Du Mez

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Blame Culture: The Misplaced Accountability in Abuse

The existing theological framework and cultural beliefs around sexuality contribute to a troubling environment where abusers are often protected and victims are victimized further. This framework promotes the idea that men, driven by an uncontrollable sexual urge, cannot be held responsible for their actions, placing the burden of purity on women. Women are taught to manage the sexual desires of men, leading to scenarios where any misconduct or assault is attributed to the inadequacies of women—either through tempting their abusers or failing to satisfy their husbands. This results in a culture that fosters blame on the victim rather than addressing the abusive behavior.

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