The Illusion of Wins and Sacrificing Happiness for Success

Wins, regardless of size, feel the same as individuals climb the ladder of success. People often sacrifice their happiness in pursuit of success, believing that achieving success will eventually lead to happiness. High performers, often driven by external expectations and fear, tend to be more miserable than the average person. They are motivated by a desire to prove themselves, seeking validation and acceptance. The expectation that happiness lies in achieving the next set of goals is challenged by the notion that happiness should be cultivated during success. Learning to be happy while succeeding is crucial, rather than presuming happiness lies in future achievements.