The speaker reflects on the challenge of knowing what one truly wants in a partner, highlighting that superficial filters like income or appearance may not accurately predict long-term relationship happiness. They emphasize the importance of personality, emotional history, culture, and values which can only be understood by spending time with someone. The speaker criticizes dating apps for optimizing based on surface preferences rather than deeper compatibility, suggesting that these apps may not accurately depict what individuals truly desire in a partner.

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