Self-compassion is a powerful strategy that is often underestimated by perfectionists. It is more than just being nice to oneself or telling oneself that everything is okay. Self-compassion, as described by Dr. Kristin Neff, involves three steps: mindfulness, recognizing common humanity, and kindness towards oneself. Research shows that responding to stress with self-compassion is a highly effective coping mechanism that promotes overall well-being. Despite the lack of emotional education in schools, individuals can learn and practice self-compassion. Even a small amount of self-compassion can lead to significant healing and positive changes in life. It is like lighting a candle in a dark room, where a tiny flicker can brighten the entire space. Practicing self-compassion can be a simple yet transformative act that anyone can incorporate into their daily life.