The distinction between 'everything happens for a reason' and 'everything has an effect' highlights a critical viewpoint on how humans make sense of events in their lives. The former implies a search for meaning where none may exist, fostering a convergent perspective that requires everything to connect to a grand purpose. This can lead to additional burden, particularly for individuals coping with tragedy, as exemplified by a survivor of 9/11 who struggled with the notion that others were meant to die while he was spared. The arbitrary nature of life is emphasized, with the suggestion that minor contingencies can have significant impacts—demonstrated by historical events, such as the asteroid impact that triggered the rise of mammals and, ultimately, humans. Rejecting the idea of a cosmic plan, a more liberating approach accepts that randomness and chance play substantial roles in existence, allowing for a more realistic acceptance of life's unpredictability. This perspective encourages understanding that while we may influence our surroundings, true control is often an illusion, paving the way for a healthier mindset towards the unpredictability of life.