Don't get so focused on what you don't have that you ignore what you do have. This leads to frustration and can drive you crazy. If you stay in that mindset for too long, you'll likely quit or make irrational decisions. It's important to be grateful for what you have and balance negative emotions with contentment and gratitude. This is where the concept of aggressive patience comes in - understanding that progress takes time, but also taking proactive actions along the way.