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The Dangers of Seeking Approval and Validation Through Achievement and Success
The pursuit of approval and validation through achievements can lead to a deep sense of insecurity and enslavement. Individuals often feel inadequate, prompting them to seek reassurance through various means, such as personal accomplishments or fulfilling societal and moral roles. Whether through secular avenues like beauty, power, or financial success, or through religious commitments to morality, parenthood, or spirituality, these pursuits can become a cover for underlying feelings of lack. When one's emotional state becomes dependent on the success or failure in these areas, it reveals a deeper problem: the focus shifts from serving a higher purpose to serving the needs of one's ego. This dependency can manifest in feelings of sadness, anger, or anxiety when facing failures or challenges. Ultimately, prioritizing any career or role over a genuine relationship with God can cause inner turmoil and be spiritually damaging, as these roles demand devotion and can become false gods that dictate one’s worth and happiness.