Different individuals have unique preferences when it comes to sexual language and turn-ons. Understanding the concept of 'cat' (Chase, Approach, Touch) can help in expressing desires effectively. Sensual individuals require a complete sensory experience to feel turned on. Mental individuals prioritize emotional connection before engaging in sexual activities. Negotiators may be more inclined to have sex if they see it as a trade-off for non-sexual favours. Overcoming sexual slumps involves intimacy without always leading to sex, to maintain trust and closeness. Seducing a partner should be personalized to their preferences, not based on assumptions. Women's turn-ons are often tied to feeling confident and sexy, while men are typically more visual in their arousal. Understanding these distinctions can lead to better sexual interactions and communication.
Sex. Sex. Sex. Sex. Also sex. Buckle up, Ologites, because clinical sexologist and author Shannon Boodram (known for her sex educational YouTube channel ShanBoody) chats with Alie about sexual identity, how a friggin' vagina works, how to get over slumps, love languages, monogamy vs. open relationships, dating in the wake of #metoo, some fun with prostate orgasms, foot fetishes and why relationships can be like pizza. Then at the very very end Alie talks about the weirdest sex dream she's ever had SORRY.
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Editing by Steven Ray Morris
Music by Nick Thorburn