Children often get angry and throw tantrums because they don't get what they want, while teenagers develop bad attitudes due to feeling controlled. The cause of their anger is often the lack of freedoms we give them. We wrongly believe we know better and try to control them, causing them suffering. We should treat them with respect and give them the freedom they deserve.
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Episode 1990:
Leo Babauta challenges conventional parenting norms by advocating for compassionate parenting in his article "On Compassion Towards Our Children." He emphasizes the importance of understanding and empathy in place of traditional discipline methods, suggesting that we teach compassion to children by embodying it ourselves, thus paving the way for a more compassionate future generation.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/on-compassion-towards-our-children/
Quotes to ponder:
"Discipline Isn’t compassionate. When a child gets angry, throws a tantrum, throws toys, hits another child, or cries loudly, parents often will use force to stop the child [...] That’s not compassionate."
Episode references:
Taking Children Seriously (TCS) philosophy: Taking Children Seriously Website
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