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3 Questions to Build Intimacy & Deepen Relationships | Topaz Adizes

The Art of Charm

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Embrace Kindness Over Niceness

In moments of conflict or unexpected responses, it is vital to appreciate the honesty of the other party. Being grateful for their truth is essential, as it indicates a deeper level of kindness rather than superficial niceness. Niceness often involves avoiding discomfort and fearing the impact of one's words, which can lead to disingenuous interactions. In contrast, kindness embraces authenticity, allowing for genuine communication that acknowledges the other's feelings and presence. This approach fosters a true dialogue where both parties can express themselves fully and respect each other's agency.

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