Love Requires Discernment

Love transcends mere sentimentality; it involves a commitment to the well-being of others while also making judicious distinctions between positive and negative influences. Unconditional positive regard should focus on the aspects of individuals striving towards improvement, rather than blindly accepting all parts of their character. This nuanced approach to love and support, especially in psychotherapy and pastoral care, emphasizes the importance of guiding individuals away from self-destructive tendencies and fostering their growth in a meaningful way.