The speaker used to adopt a victim mindset to gain attention and empathy from others, which was effective for him. However, after a realization, he understood that this approach was not attractive to women, and that self-improvement and hard work would be more effective in gaining positive attention. This realization led him to change his mindset and stop seeking attention through victimhood.

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