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ALAIN DE BOTTON: WE LOOK FOR FAMILIARITY NOT HAPPINESS IN RELATIONSHIPS

Great Company with Jamie Laing

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Nurture Shapes Responses: Survival Strategies Persist

Behavior often stems from childhood experiences where certain actions served a useful purpose for survival. Many adults display strange or difficult behaviors rooted in these formative years, driven by past logic that once provided comfort or protection. For instance, an individual who struggles to connect in relationships may have adopted emotional detachment as a survival strategy after experiencing loss. These coping mechanisms, while clever at the time, frequently outlive their original context, leading to ongoing destructive patterns that hinder personal growth and meaningful connections.

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