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The Devastating Pattern of Mistrust and Self-Abandonment
The devastating pattern of mistrust and self-abandonment starts when we lose trust in our parents and caregivers, and it continues as we lose trust in the people we make commitments to later in life. This pattern of mistrust extends to ourselves, as we learn to distrust and abandon ourselves. We perpetuate the trauma by distracting ourselves from our own needs, whether it be through work, career, money, sex, or relationships. The most devastating aspect of this pattern is that we don't trust ourselves to take care of our own suffering, so we run away from ourselves. This self-distrust is the most damaging. In a spiritual life, we learn to come.