Many individuals struggle with valuing others' opinions excessively, often caring more about the judgment of those they do not respect rather than those they genuinely love and cherish. This phenomenon highlights a common pattern where people prioritize external validation from critics over constructive feedback from trusted relationships. The tendency to seek approval from less respected figures reflects a misalignment in emotional investment, leading to unnecessary stress and self-doubt.
We all wish we gave fewer f*cks in our lives, but wanting to and doing it are two different things. If you've read my book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, then you know that not giving a f*ck doesn't mean you don't care about anything—it means deliberately choosing what you give a f*ck about and ignore the rest.
In this episode, we dive into the realities of not giving f*ck, the good and the bad. We talk about why there will never be a time when you're completely free from judgement by others. Why being "normal"—whatever that means—is not something to aspire to, nor is wanting to be liked by everyone. How criticism is a part of life you can't escape—but not all criticism is created equal. And a whole lot more.
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