The key insight is the concept of acting as if you care about something, are excited, or are motivated, in order to cultivate those feelings within yourself. By consciously engaging in activities or behaviors as though you already possess joy and motivation, you can eventually experience those emotions authentically. Building a structure of daily joy and noticing and documenting things that bring happiness can help in reconnecting with the enjoyment of life. Additionally, the importance of taking time for self-discovery and personal growth before entering into a relationship is emphasized, along with the need for mindful pacing when starting to date.
Happy Valentine’s Day! Let’s travel back in time to the height of quirky hipsterdom, 2009, and dive into 500 Days of Summer! This movie has been heavily requested for almost the entire time we’ve been doing the podcast. As the movie reminds us several times, this is NOT a love story! So we will be breaking down the concept of “Situationships”, what are they, how do you end up them, and how to get out of them. So check it out unless you want to end up like a Tom.
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