Parenting Challenges and Maintaining Composure

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Parenting poses challenges as kids are naturally mischievous and can create chaos. It's crucial to remember that dealing with unruly behavior reflects on how you respond, not solely on the child's actions. Maintaining composure and not letting the situation turn you into a monster is key. While it's important to guide and discipline children, it's also essential not to be overly concerned about others' judgments. Most parents empathize with these challenges, so stay calm and don't let the chaos affect your good nature.

We talked about Lincoln recently, who used to bring his “brats” to the office, in the words of William Herndon, Lincoln’s law partner. As much as he hated the noise, Herndon actually seemed to admire Lincoln’s ability to deal with this. “The boys were absolutely unrestrained in their amusement,” he noted. “If they pulled down all the books from the shelves, bent the points of all the pens, overturned inkstands, scattered law papers over the floor or threw the pencils into the spittoon, it never disturbed the serenity of their father’s good nature.”

The lesson here is twofold. First off, it’s a reminder that you’re not alone in raising absolute hellions. That’s just what kids are—and they never really stop being them (they find new ways of stirring stuff up when they’re older!). Two, really the only part of this that reflects on you is how you respond to it. If it turns you into a monster, if it makes you mean or nasty or makes you throw a fit in response to their fit? Well that’s the real problem.

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