Men seek an attractive and supportive partner who pushes them to be better. In their 20s, they may face challenges finding such a person due to lacking basic requirements. As they work on themselves and become successful, their attractiveness grows, and they start receiving different treatment. Success comes from hard work, and the partner's interest may stem from this success. Beyond attractiveness, a successful partnership requires compatibility, mutual support, understanding of each other's needs, and a realistic view of relationships beyond initial romantic feelings.