The speaker recalls an early memory where receiving a disliked drum as a gift revealed a conflict between being honest and polite. This experience taught the speaker that one cannot always be both honest and polite. Growing up in a neighborhood with diverse parental norms on appropriate speech, the speaker learned that while they might get punished for saying the wrong thing, free speech was essential for people to respect each other as individuals and hear each other out.

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