The first harsh truth reveals that humans are naturally flawed, and the assumption of a perfect state of innocence at birth is not accurate. Psychological research has uncovered various cognitive biases, perceptual flaws, and unreliable memories in the human mind. This includes instances where individuals fail to notice obvious things, such as a person in a gorilla suit walking into view. Additionally, the human mind tends to prioritize self-preservation over truth, leading to biases and flawed logic. The actor-observer bias contributes to people viewing themselves as good and others as evil, which can be dangerous. Shifting the mindset to recognize the flawed nature of human cognitive machinery allows for greater compassion, patience, and empathy towards others, leading to less judgment and more understanding.