Meet Your Needs Before Expecting Them Met

Take responsibility for fulfilling your own needs rather than depending on others to do so. When you prioritize meeting your needs, you can better select nurturing friends and partners, reducing frustrations around unmet expectations. This dependency often stems from childhood experiences and can lead to anger towards those who don't meet your needs, especially in new relationships. Recognizing early red flags in potential partners is crucial to avoid bad relationships; often, these warning signs appear immediately. Meeting your own needs also protects you from romantic obsession, emphasizing the importance of self-reliance in emotional fulfillment.