Being more curious than judgmental about those who are different from us can help us understand their perspectives. While oxytocin enhances our motivation to understand close relationships, it doesn't necessarily drive us to comprehend those who are not part of our inner circle. Curiosity arises when our brains perceive seeking new information as safe, encouraging us to explore the unknown. By appreciating the subjective nature of our realities and the objective world, we can cultivate curiosity towards others' diverse perspectives without feeling threatened by our own beliefs.