What you want to do is sort of like, hey, i'm noticing that i'm having some friction with this person. Have you ever seen that before? Or has this been a problem for you? Is thits like, is it a me thing, or is it, like, do other people struggle with this? In case, you want to sort of frame things, once again, non judgmentally. Like, i'm trying to figure out how to work with this person way. Don't call them out and don't attack them.