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Recognize Your Role in the Narrative
Individuals often struggle with feelings of anxiety in romantic relationships, mistakenly believing they are the central characters in others' lives. This perspective can lead to a skewed perception of interpersonal impact, where one's anxiety is projected onto others. Recognizing that not everyone thinks of you in the same way can mitigate feelings of abandonment and irrational fears. Furthermore, there is a tendency to replay childhood dynamics in adult relationships, a phenomenon known as repetition compulsion. This unconscious behavior aims to resolve past issues, mistakenly hoping for a different outcome. Acknowledging these patterns is crucial for personal growth and healthier relationships.