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The Marriage Supper of the Lamb

Cultivating a Healthy Marriage with Tim Keller

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The Dynamics of Love and Repentance in Marriage

God demonstrates the essence of unconditional love by choosing to put aside wrath and extend love to those who have wronged Him. This divine act reflects the two crucial components necessary for restoration in relationships: the choice of the offended to forgive and the genuine repentance of the offender. In marriage, this dynamic can manifest in either order; however, both aspects are essential for healing. The offended spouse must actively choose to let go of anger and sin to open the door for reconciliation, avoiding a posture of punishment. True electing love involves acknowledging the pressures faced by the offender without retaliating, thereby creating an environment conducive to genuine repentance. On the other hand, repentance requires the offender to recognize their wrongdoing without making excuses or demands, as exemplified in the parable of the prodigal son. True repentance is not about seeking to earn forgiveness through self-punishment or explanation but involves a humble acknowledgment of sin and a willingness to accept consequences. This cycle of love and repentance becomes the foundation for restoring and strengthening marital bonds.

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