AI-powered
podcast player
Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features
Understanding Emotional Needs and Cognitive Distortions
Exploring the desire for attention reveals a deeper emotional need stemming from feelings of lack or flaw. This introspection allows a person to identify the specific emotional needs that motivate their behaviors. Furthermore, cognitive distortions such as magnifying or minimizing events can skew our perception of reality, creating unnecessary stress. Recognizing this pattern is essential, as individuals often exaggerate minor inconveniences, treating them as significant stressors, or downplay major issues, failing to acknowledge their impact. A stress thermometer technique provides a framework for calibrating stress levels on a scale from 0 to 100, helping individuals differentiate between genuinely significant stressors and trivial matters. This awareness promotes a more accurate understanding of stress, reducing the emotional turmoil that arises from distorted thinking.