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The Reason Self Development is Fundamentally Flawed with Steve March

Curious Humans with Jonny Miller

INSIGHT

Self-Unfoldment vs. Self-Improvement

  • Reducing inner resistance is more effective than increasing driving forces for achieving goals.
  • Self-improvement often intensifies inner resistance, leading to burnout and negative side effects because it primarily focuses on increasing driving forces without addressing the resistance.
  • Self-unfoldment, which prioritizes contact and fulfilling the need for connection, leads to positive outcomes like relaxation, openness, deeper relationships, and easier access to support.
  • This "unfolding approach" is largely overlooked in our culture, which predominantly focuses on self-improvement.
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