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Modern Wisdom
Avoid Shadow Sentences for Healthy Communication
Shadow sentences involve speaking indirectly in the hope that the other person will understand your needs without you stating them clearly. This indirect communication leads to unmet expectations, tension, and resentment in relationships. It hinders open and honest communication, creating a vicious cycle of passive-aggressive behavior that prevents vulnerability and feedback. Breaking the cycle starts with one person speaking openly and carefully, giving the other person permission to do the same. Confronting the use of shadow sentences and committing to being direct can significantly improve communication and foster healthier relationships by encouraging both parties to say what they mean and mean what they say.
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