Modern dating, as perceived by the speaker, trains individuals for divorce as it focuses on skills and tools needed to recover from a breakup, engage in detached sex, and prioritize extrinsic values over deeper connections. People tend to approach relationships with an insurance policy mentality, constantly looking for something better and not developing the necessary skills for maintaining lasting connections.
Let's be honest: the modern dating landscape is a shit show. From declining marriage rates and rising infidelity to the nightmare of using dating apps—it's brutal out there.
With all these supposedly "easy" ways to meet new people, why are the people who want long-term, stable relationships so fed up with the dating world?
I invited dating and relationships coach Sadia Khan on the pod to discuss how the skills we use to excel in modern dating often sabotage long-term happiness.
Sadia brings a refreshing, thought-provoking perspective to the conversation that will help you navigate the complexities of today's dating world. We dive into the role of self-esteem in successful relationships, the pitfalls of modern dating advice, and the skewed expectations shaped by social media, dating apps, and pornography.
Enjoy.
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