Understanding the difference between walls and boundaries is crucial. Walls are rigid barriers where no dialogue is accepted or contemplated, only correction is attempted. Boundaries, on the other hand, allow for dialogue and consideration of others' perspectives, while still maintaining personal opinions. It's important to be open to learning and changing oneself. Having walls can hinder progress and connection, so setting flexible rules within conversations is key. Trust can lead to these rules being adjusted over time, fostering connection. Seeking support from a therapist can aid in navigating these distinctions and improving communication.
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Episode 2107:
In this episode, Greg Audino narrates an insightful article by Keith Wilson, delving into the difference between boundaries and walls in relationships, drawing parallels with the political arena. Wilson emphasizes the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries while dismantling walls that hinder communication and understanding. Using examples from politics and counseling, he illustrates how embracing boundaries fosters connection, whereas walls obstruct progress and lead to isolation.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://keithwilsoncounseling.com/2017/03/31/building-walls/
Quotes to ponder:
"Walls are barriers. They prevent fresh ideas from coming inside and imprison the participants in an echo chamber of stale solutions and ever more isolated notions."
"Respect the boundaries, but tear down this wall."
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