The importance of valuing qualities in a partner

Kindness, sexual compatibility, and qualities that make someone an amazing partner never go out of fashion. Being attracted to someone is important, but it should be valued appropriately with other important qualities. Chasing after superficial traits based on ego is counterproductive and a reflection of our own insecurities. Judging others based on their looks or social status is often a way of expressing contempt for ourselves. It's important to value qualities in a partner that truly matter and not be solely driven by external factors like popularity or physical appearance.