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Success and the Desire to Feel Like Enough
Success can be a strange thing./nPresumably, we want success because we think a more successful life will bring us more happiness, meaning and fulfillment./nHowever, success can also be a source of misery./nOne of the most common dynamics I see amongst high performers is that parents encourage their children to do well by praising them when they succeed and criticizing them when they fail./nThis lesson metastasizes into early adulthood and becomes the child's driving force to achieve many things./nSuccess and progress ameliorates the feelings of insufficiency, which leads to success and progress being prioritized above everything else.