Surrender is essential to understanding and reclaiming personal power. To move with genuine power, one must relinquish preconceived notions of what power and success should look like. These expectations can create a false sense of inadequacy, leading individuals to believe they lack power when life doesn't match their ideals. Embracing reality, however difficult, allows for the discovery of authentic power. This process can be devastating, as it often requires letting go of deeply held beliefs and structures in one's life. Much like refusing to accept the destruction around a crumbling house, individuals must realize that some walls need to come down for true rebuilding to occur. Accepting the need for transformation involves recognizing the necessity of surrendering outdated visions and partnering with the remnants of one's former life to create a new foundation.