Success is now defined by being a good father and husband, finding validation in meaningful interactions with loved ones rather than external achievements like work or financial status. The speaker emphasizes the importance of deep connections and focuses on family relationships as the true measure of success and fulfillment, realizing that true confidence and self-worth come from being present and engaged with family, not from external markers of success.
The Minimalists speak with Carl Lentz about the deep breach of trust that accompanies cheating in a romantic relationship.
Discussed in this episode:
How did Carl Lentz’s life come crashing down at the height of his fame? (2:47)
How did “lifestyle clutter” contribute to Lentz’s infidelity? (4:18)
What unexpected areas of Lentz’s life were affected by his extramarital affair? (7:19)
What steps are required to make amends after you’ve hurt someone you love? (16:39)
How do I avoid blaming others for the mistakes I’ve made? (24:47)
What role did apologizing and forgiveness play in Lentz’s healing? (27:47)
What self-defeating stories lead to adultery? (39:45)
What are the commonalities between most cases of unfaithfulness? (42:15)
What’s your definition of infidelity? (54:15)
Listener tip: Just say no to free things! (1:02:23)
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